Which Horse Are You Riding On?

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Ever wonder what predicts divorce or a break up in a relationship? I do!  And so did Dr. John Gottman, known for his work on marital stability and relationship analysis.
Gottman employs scientific direct observations and methods to study marriages.  In his research, he found that not all negatives are alike.

According to his scientific studies, four patterns of interaction stood out as the most predictive of marital conflict and – ultimately – divorce.  He named these four patterns The Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse.

 

 

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